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2007/6/26
虽然被zz了无数次，可每每读来总有一种无法言说的感触～
女人，要相信温暖，美好，信任，尊严，坚强这些老掉牙的字眼。
不要颓废，空虚，迷茫，糟践自己，伤害别人。
不要认同那些伪装的酷和另类。他们是无事可做的人找出来放任自己无事可做的借口。
真正的酷是在内心。你要有强大的内心。要有任凭时间流逝，不会磨折和屈服的信念。
要好好去爱，去生活。青春如此短暂，不要叹老。要时不时问问自己，自己在干吗。
伤心和委屈的时候，要嚎啕大哭。哭完洗完脸，拍拍自己的脸，挤出一个微笑给自己看。
不要揉，否则第二天早上会眼睛肿。
给自己一个远大的前程和目标。记得常常仰望天空。记住仰望天空的时候也看看脚下。
任何时候，任何人问你，有过多少次恋爱，答案是两次。
一次是他爱我，我不爱他。一次是我爱他，他不爱我。好的爱情永远在下一次。
别给同一个男人两次伤害你的机会。别相信床上的誓言。别看重处女，但保持纯洁。
别轻易说出“爱”。
别把犯贱当真爱。一个男人作践自己来取悦你的时候，千万不要因此感动。这个烟头烫在他身上，下一个就可能烫在你身上。看看一个男人的朋友们是什么样的，注意他的朋友们对待女人的态度。
千万别相信一个不准备将你介绍给他的朋友圈子的男人。
不要相信在恋爱上用手段的人。
分手时不要口出恶言。吸取教训，但不要后悔。后悔没有用。
别干撕照片，烧信，撕日记这样一类三流爱情电视剧中才有人干的事。
相信爱情。相信好男人还存在，还未婚，还在茫茫人海中寻觅你。别说“男人没一个好东西”这样使别人误以为你阅人无数的话。
要保护自己，千万记住。对某些人来说，你不必珍惜，但对家人来说，你是珍贵的。请你知道，宝贝，伤心的时候，要回家，要给我打电话，要跟周围人说，不要闷在心里。要知道你不缺乏爱，有我们在。
照镜子的时候，一定要微笑，跟自己说，我很可爱。
要运动，要健康，不懒惰，不吸烟。不要晚睡晚起。
爱物质，适当地。永远知道精神更重要。比那些名表，名牌，时装，更加美丽的是你自己。
顺父母心意，但有自己的想法。不要盲从，任何事都问问自己到底怎么想。有想法要大声说出来。
读哲学，科学，心理学，一些你以为枯燥的书。知道这世界的基本规则和常识。多听听好的音乐。看好的电影和画。
爱心中的艺术，但不是艺术中的自己。
别瞧不起劳动人民。不要为劳动羞耻。土地不脏，汗味不难闻。请尊重那些似乎生活状况不如你的人，因为这样才是尊重自己。
永远体恤那些生活在底层的人们。
不要小看一分钱。不妨自己去挣挣看。
袋里有钱的时候，别拒绝任何一个乞丐。我们不是施舍给乞丐，是施舍给比我们困难的人。那些伪装的乞丐，也在乞讨的时候，具备了乞丐的心情。给比拿快乐。
不管多么累，公车上要给老人和孕妇让座。
被朋友伤害了的时候，别怀疑友情，但提防背叛你的人。原谅，但并不遗忘。
做人存几分天真童心，对朋友保持一些侠义之情。
要快乐，要开朗，要坚韧，要温暖。这和性格无关。 2007/6/17
A little bit superstitious~
上个周末，很郁闷地在外面东逛西逛，天热地要命就跑到店里去做指甲护理，偶遇一个很神奇的小姑娘也在做指甲，萍水相逢的感觉。大家都是属于自来熟的那种人，就开始瞎七搭八茄三胡，聊了很久很久，觉得彼此的性格以及很多处事方法都很像。小姑娘很灵，对风水啊八卦啊看相啊颇有研究，就帮我大致看了下面相和手相，说的非常准，并不是一些superficial的东西，喜忧参半吧。我刚知道，原来左手为命右手为运，手相也是会随年龄的增长而变化的，难怪发现自己的手相和以前不太一样，可依旧奇特。
仔细回想了一下，小的时候曾经让一个据说很有名的瞎子帮我算过生辰八字，除了大致的人生走向性格特征家庭情况等等，还能精确到几岁开始如何如何，几月生病几月交好运发生什么事，果然这一路的轨迹大多按照瞎子先生所说的进行着，过去发生的事情很多都得以应证。而且看相小姑娘和生辰八字先生所说的内容有着惊人的一致，前段时间和星座达人小姑娘讨教过星座，也大致帮我看了星盘。很多并不是流露于表面的东西，他们都点到了，结果又是很像很像的。
我不想潜意识里说服自己去相信这些在别人看来毫无科学依据的所谓的迷信活动，星盘看相八字貌似风马牛不相及，其实都蕴含着很深的学问，至少从我的亲身经历看这些东西所提及的结果以及所点到的关键都颇为相似。即使不准确，也或多或少给我们提供一些参考的依据，做好未雨绸缪的准备，冷静一些谨慎一些，争取把损失或是不幸降到最低。自幼就相信顺其自然的道理，觉得很多东西都是冥冥之中就注定的，可能这就是所谓的命。记得前几天和Sissi聊天，她说道the horoscope is accurate~ Fengshui sir said blahblahblah，and they don’t contradict~I have no more words~ sometimes we have to believe in fate blahblahblah
Fitting Girl~
宣扬完迷信后，说点搞笑的事情。
星期一的时候打电话去Adidas问fitting model的事情，看到他们列出的数据只有身高和三围，误差2cm以内。量了量差不多，就是身高矮了2cm，anyway反正也是在误差范围内。电话那头的A小姐说，身高最好再高点，三围到是差不多，你再把内腿长大腿围膝盖围blahblahblah围等等量好告诉我。量好后又是一个电话，A说你身高没到不过内腿长到是超过了，大腿围膝盖围少了1cm，其他差不多，这样吧你明天下午过来，我们帮你量，再看看整体感觉。貌似那里要为下一轮trade meeting做准备，有很多新款样衣，所以要找真人去试穿一下看看衣服的上身效果和整体感觉。反正这个fitting model和传统意义上的model浑身不搭界，对身材的要求并不需要骨感，只要符合样衣的若干项数据就ok了，因此一般都会找一些普通人，对相貌也没有什么特别的要求，关键是风格还有感觉要比较吻合。
星期二下午千里迢迢从学校跑到了港汇，在5F的书店门口和妖娆妩媚的SY碰了记头.印象中Adidas在港汇一座，路上问了下Crystal在几楼。后来按照她说的跑到了29F，发觉跑错了楼层，估计29F是marketing，sales之类的部门，又去了31F，到了他们负责设计，陈列样衣的地方，那里的样衣巨多巨灵。总体来说，Adidas的衣服都比较欧版，而且又是走sporty，healthy路线的，所以他们的样衣都是满enormous的，size也偏大。我这种人很悲惨的属于典型易长肉体质，一看就是过于healthy，过于大只，所以很无聊地过去了。
进了一间小房间，A小姐脖子上挂了手里拿了很多很多卷尺，还有2张表格，扫了一眼居然有二三十个数据要求。脱了高跟鞋，一下子就矮掉一截，底气不足。她让我靠墙站好，开始东量西量左量右量。A小姐说，你身高是矮了点，三围和要求的数字差不多。后来发觉，他们说是说误差2cm以内都能接受，其实是越接近越好，1cm最多了，特别是像肩宽小腿围大腿围什么的本来数据就那么几十cm，不能差1cm的，否则他们就会说太大了或是太小了，太粗了或是太细了，效果也会差很多，因为样衣都是这么个固定的size。
于是我又这么转来转去，被她在腰上围了卷尺固定好，开始量上身长下身长，全腿长内腿长大腿长大腿围之类的数据，有点ws，浑身不自在。后来还量了肩宽手臂间距离之类的东西，A小姐说我们内腿长要求72,73的你身高没到怎么有75,76，你上身太短了，怪不得差了满多的，其他数据到都差不多嘛。后来又跑进来B小姐，A小姐说你看看这个人的情况吧，结果B小姐又开始东量西量，说了句还可以呀，你穿上样衣给我们看看。结果拿进来两块玫红色的布一样的东西递给我，我一看差点没昏过去，本来还以为只要试穿tee之类的，居然要试穿一套用料极省的分体款sback西西的紧身运动套装，上身一条极窄无比的布绕了2根绳子一样的肩带，下身一条低腰款又极短无比的运动裤，比一般的swimming suit用料少很多，估计可以和bikini有得一拼了。虽然我看上去比较open，从内心深处说还是属于很保守很传统的人，很刮三地说了句“啊？怎么噶暴露的啦？”AB说道，要试穿的样衣很多都是这个样子的啦。
穿好后我就发觉各记离谱得结棍了，房间里有面超大的镜子越照越奇怪。因为平时从来都不走sporty路线的，偶尔穿穿很休闲的衣服最多也就是tee+jeans了，大多数的时候还是走女人们口中用来嘲我的“老师路线”，看来还是穿穿小西装正装之类的正常点。所以怎么看怎么刮三，加上一副几天没睡好的样子，有点无精打采，最13的还是那个发型和衣服显得极为不搭。我向A，B坦白从宽自己平时从来不穿这种路线的衣服，所以感觉会比较刮三。A，B说还好还好呀。随后又开始左看右看，继续量各种数据，后来他们又说你膝盖围小腿围太小了，差了近2cm的样子，其他到还可以，我们再帮你量量身高。一多汗，他们前前后后帮我量了四五次身高，每次都说啊呀，矮了点嘛，最好再高2，3cm，其他到是还可以。
觉得这种风格的衣服一定要看上去就很energetic，很热衷于运动又勤于健身锻炼的人穿才有感觉，最好是肤色健康，全身的肉比较紧绷不能有一点松弛，四肢要有线条感最好带点小肌肉，而且有小腹肌轮廓的话估计效果会更加灵，因为有很多样衣都是要露出腰腹的。我一看么就是那种平时不太锻炼的人，又很少运动，又懒又馋，穿不出sporty的感觉，特别是这样的运动款，觉得SY和Zoey姐姐都非常适合这种风格。那里的人都很nice，报酬也不错，总共要量二十几个数据吧。他们prefer165-166的身高，比较大只一些，肩宽38-39，内腿长73，大腿围50，膝盖围35，三围xx—xx—xx，其他n多数据我也记不清了，有兴趣的筒子们可以去试试看。
Hanging out~
星期五晚上和Sissi去了附近一个小弄堂里的博多星记，性价比满高，双皮奶煲汤之类的都做得很正宗。终于找到了一个和我一样喜欢吃脚的人，什么凤爪啊糟鸡爪啊猪蹄之类的，而且里面有大量胶原蛋白，很补的。估计SY又要说我怎么尽喜欢吃一些很奇怪很恶心的东西。那家店唯一的缺点就是地方小位子少，所以往往有人要排队要等很久，进进出出的人看上去都满有腔调，型男索女也不少，小车进进出出。Sissi的笑声超有特色，而且我们都很喜欢笑又很CI，一道聊天很是则劲，很多各种颜色各种深度的段子都还没和她说，她就哈哈大笑了估计是笑点比较低的缘故，哈哈哈哈。
吃饱喝足后就随便晃了一圈，宝庆路衡山路桃江路东平路岳阳路，一直都有种似曾相识的感觉，很亲切。小学初中时的校车就停在那里一块，每天都会走到三角花园的普希金像前或是桃江路上坐校车，不知不觉脑海中又浮现出很多以前的事情，又开始怀旧了。衡山路依旧热闹喧嚣，男男女女各色人种，一派红灯区作风，从它的这一头到另一头一直波及到我家附近的Bon Bon，Club MT。世风日下啊。
后来两个人兜到了东平路上的Simply Life，还逛了藏珑坊好像是叫Lapis Lazuli，性价比哈低哈低，很多都是没什么设计元素可言的家居用品，在二楼还碰到了海燕和一神秘暧昧男子，感觉她比电视里要瘦好多好多，果然镜头的放大作用是无敌的。我们实在是无聊，就点了热水果茶和冰淇淋继续聊天抱怨发呆大笑，后面发生的事情就比较神奇一些，以下省略300字~ 2007/6/10
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Shanghai 0 China 11/28/1985 11:50 - Julian day 2446397.66
Adjust -8.00 ST 16.24 Lat 31.10 Long -121.28 |
Ok, now let's get started with the analysis of your birth chart. We begin with a look at your planets and houses. This is rather technical data for those people who know a lot about astrology.
If you'd like to get an easier to understand natal/birth report, then we can recommend AstrologySource Merlin Natal Report. It's written in very easy to understand words and provides an in-depth view into your personality, your possibilities and your options.
The position of the planets in the signs of the Zodiac has an influence on the character of the individual and these influences form a large part of the individual psyche.
The most important information from the following table are: your sun sign, moon sign and your ascendant. The sun sign is the most general information in your horoscope. However you should make special note of your ascendant (Asc), also called rising sign. Never forget your rising sign as it give you more in-depth information about yourself. The Moon sign is also important as it reflects your emotions and intuitive side of your nature. In the Old Astrology, the Moon sign was a lot more important as the more general Sun sign.
| Your Planets & Houses |
| Zodiac in degrees 0.00
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| Placidus Orb:0
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| Sun
| Sagittarius
| 5.52
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| Ascendant
| Aquarius
| 25.42
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| Moon
| Gemini
| 12.43
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| II
| Aries
| 7.52
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| Mercury
| Sagittarius
| 7.39 R
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| III
| Taurus
| 11.34
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| Venus
| Scorpio
| 23.15
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| IV
| Gemini
| 7.45
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| Mars
| Libra
| 19.42
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| V
| Cancer
| 0.50
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| Jupiter
| Aquarius
| 11.53
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| VI
| Cancer
| 25.02
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| Saturn
| Sagittarius
| 1.20
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| VII
| Leo
| 25.42
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| Uranus
| Sagittarius
| 17.28
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| VIII
| Libra
| 7.52
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| Neptune
| Capricorn
| 2.21
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| IX
| Scorpio
| 11.34
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| Pluto
| Scorpio
| 5.54
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| Midheaven
| Sagittarius
| 7.45
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| Lilith
| Taurus
| 19.55
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| XI
| Capricorn
| 0.50
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| Asc node
| Taurus
| 8.55
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| XII
| Capricorn
| 25.02 |
The planetary positions in the houses express the facts relative to destiny.
| Planets in the houses |
| Sun
| in
| IX
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| Moon
| in
| IV
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| Mercury
| in
| IX
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| Venus
| in
| IX
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| Mars
| in
| VIII
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| Jupiter
| in
| XII
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| Saturn
| in
| IX
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| Uranus
| in
| Midheaven
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| Neptune
| in
| XI
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| Pluto
| in
| VIII
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| Lilith
| in
| III
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| Asc node
| in
| II |
Here is now the interpretative analysis of your birth chart. It goes over the various items in the previous tables and explains what it means for you. The planetary aspects are also explained further on.
If you'd like to get a clearer and easier to understand birth chart, then please use the Merlin Natal Report.
You can also get additional information through this interactive feature:
Birth Chart
This birth chart shows the positions of the planets of Lane
The planets in the signs
The position of the planets in the signs of the Zodiac has an influence on the character of the individual and these influences form a large part of the individual psyche.
Sun in Sagittarius
She is good, idealistic, enthusiastic and warm-hearted. She is independent, has a taste for travel and freedom. She is pre-disposed to a professional career.
Weaknesses: She is too adventurous and leaves things to chance: takes risks which cause problems: she is rebellious and has a playful spirit.
Moon in Gemini
Sharp intellect. She likes literature, adapts to all situations and social groups. Work in contact with the public, literary occupations, travel.
Weaknesses: lack of follow-up of ideas, indecision, goes back on decisions.
Mercury in Sagittarius
Democrat, philosopher, tolerant, respectful of laws. Likes foreign travel. Believes that everything teaches you something.
Weaknesses: free spirit, that likes adventure and will leap into hazardous and risky affairs.
Venus in Scorpio
Sensual and passionate, she likes love, the act of making love. Passionate loves, full of ardor and desire where the partner needs to be able to match her level or else recriminations will follow. While being passionate, she is also jealous and possessive.
Weaknesses: if disappointed or deceived in love, she can become bitter and odious. She hates the person as much as she used to love. Only jealousy can be as strong as hate.
Mars in Libra
Aggression is quite simply repressed. She stores up the setbacks without letting it show, but too much can be difficult to support. Appreciates the Arts, beauty.
Weaknesses: she is quick to criticize the society in which she lives. She likes to please and plays on the affection of others.
Jupiter in Aquarius
Ambivalent feelings, generous, philanthropic. She is tolerant and indulgent.
Weaknesses: an idealist prone to rebel or revolt.
Saturn in Sagittarius
She has her own way of thinking about a subject, she has her own ideas about things. She respects society and its rules guide her conduct.
Weaknesses: hard, unforgiving, rigorous, insensitive and sometimes inhuman. A limited and narrow mind.
Uranus in Sagittarius
She is shy, delicate but proud, bold and lively.
Neptune in Capricorn
She is discerning, wise and sensible.
Pluto in Scorpio
Great sexual activity.
Sign and ascendant
Sagittarius ascendant Aquarius
The planets in the houses
The planetary positions in the houses express the facts relative to destiny.
Sun in IX
Prolonged scientific research. High ideals. She is gifted for languages and it is even more interesting for her to live abroad. Professionally successful abroad.
Moon in IV
She likes family life, peace and quiet: she likes to stay at home, surrounded by loved ones, in agreeable circumstances. Positively influenced by the mother.
Mercury in IX
Her thirst for knowledge is never satisfied. She is full of mental activity. She undertakes exhaustive studies, always studying for pleasure. Likes journeys to faraway places, and can go to live abroad.
Venus in IX
Finds love abroad or marries a foreigner. Refined mind, she likes the Arts, is carried away by beautiful things. She is very happy abroad.
Mars in VIII
Sexually very powerful, she expends their energy badly. Arguments over inheritance.
Jupiter in XII
She is kindly, and does charity work. She is protected from life's rigors to which she is not immune, but she knows how to cope. She likes working in peace and alone.
Saturn in IX
She is studious, patient, rigorous, austere. She likes reflection, meditation. She carries out all the plans she makes. She is a stay-at-home.
Uranus in X
She must have an independent career, with no routine, which satisfies her need to move around, travel and which must in particular have an element of risk attached. She is eccentric.
Neptune in XI
Friendships are frank and unselfish.
The houses in the signs
Ascendant in Aquarius
Sheloves meeting people, discussing until the wee hours of the morning. Likes to please, happily flits about. Is interested in politics, is a member of a youth organization, or one that fights for human rights.
House II in Aries
Financial success thanks to the use of energy and entrepreneurial spirit. She will tend to be spendthrift. Highly ambitious.
House III in Taurus
One is never better than at home. Not much travelling or taking of a sudden or unexamined initiative. Everything is calculated: the motto is "slowly but surely".
House IV in Gemini
Impossible to stay in one place, frequently changes home. If the job is monotonous, she will often change firm. The ideal profession would be one offering a lot of change, moving around, meeting lots of new people. An equally erratic love life is to be expected.
House V in Cancer
She will often be in love, up until the day she meets the chosen one. Then, no more flirting - the only goal: to start a family, as many kids as possible.
House VI in Cancer
Likes jobs in contact with the public. Weak point: the stomach.
House VII in Leo
Marriage for love, based on confidence, honesty, sincerity.
House VIII in Libra
Happy old age, natural death.
House IX in Scorpio
Likes long voyages, especially by sea. Might participate in regattas, likes risk, sport.
House X in Sagittarius
Job involving travel, especially abroad, and if possible with some risk attached. One of the professions.
House XI in Capricorn
Stable friendships with composed, wise people, from whose experience of life she can profit in her own life.
House XII in Capricorn
Disappointments are difficult to digest, the bitterness can last a long time before she is able to react positively.
Interplanetary aspects
The interplanetary aspects have a strong influence on the character and disposition of the individual and, consequently, on her destiny.
The conjunction aspect is variable and depends above all on the nature of the conjoint planets.
414 Conjunction Sun - Mercury
She is intelligent and knows what she wants. Is a good organizer, she likes moving, travel. She likes literature.
325 Conjunction Sun - Midheaven
She knows what she wants on the professional level, is aware of her objectives and does everything to achieve them, she will carry out plans to the very end. She has a good job as well as a good reputation.
222 Conjunction Mercury - Midheaven
She likes to have her own ideas about things, to form an opinion and think over the problems it poses. She is an intellectual.
125 Trine Moon - Jupiter
She is frank, honest, optimistic and generous. She likes good cooking, her comforts. Her friendships are sincere. She is a worker and knows how to surround herself with the right people: she is appreciated at work.
123 Conjunction Mercury - Saturn
-113 Opposition Moon - Uranus
She has a feverish, non-constructive restlessness. She is too susceptible. While her life is full of change, she is full of hot air. She is eccentric, irritable and stubborn. She has difficulty concentrating on a job. Nervous strain. Her friendships are like her professional and love life - unstable.
-104 Opposition Moon - Mercury
She is happy in her imaginary world and thus is happy nowhere, because she can never find her ideal world - thus causing a lot of change, instability and also disquiet. She is a liar, a gossip and leaves herself open to criticism. Her lies save her. If the other aspects allow, she can be a very good novelist.
92 Conjunction Sun - Saturn
She likes to work alone, quietly. She pays attention to detail, is serious, methodical, patient and can take on long, difficult and delicate tasks, and complete them.
-91 Opposition Sun - Moon
-81 Opposition Moon - Midheaven
She has an irresolute nature, with sudden changes of humor. She is unstable and does not follow through on her own objectives. This instability shows itself not only in professional life but also in love life and friendships.
59 Conjunction Venus - Saturn
She has a good grasp of reality and of duty. She is thrifty, reserved and does not show off. She likes truth and justice. In love, her sentiments are sincere and deep, she never plays false. She is, of course, faithful in love and friendship. She can love a much older person and appreciates her intelligence and good sense.
57 Conjunction Saturn - Midheaven
She is ambitious, but in a calculated, well-balanced way. She perseveres, is serious, orderly. She climbs the ladder slowly but surely: if need be, she is willing to change her ideas. She is wise and experienced.
56 Sextile Mars - Uranus
She possesses exceptional energy. She is impulsive but bold. She takes on risky enterprises for the good of the community, with all the energy she possesses. She has a great need of her independence, likes her freedom of action.
-29 Square Venus - Ascendant
She goes to excess in her pleasures, frequents doubtful company. She lacks good taste. She is very spendthrift, but spreads her money around her circle. Her friends are more self-interested than sincere.
13 Trine Moon - Mars
She is frank, honest, full of vigor and ambition. She is strong-willed and powerful at work. She is a little hard on herself but, above all, on others whose capacity for action is not as great.
10 Trine Mars - Ascendant
10 Sextile Neptune - Pluto
6 Conjunction Mercury - Uranus
She is perspicacious, ingenious: she binds intelligence and originality together with genius. She likes literature, especially fiction. She is spontaneous in her friendships and knows how to take advantage of the situations that arise.
-3 Square Saturn - Ascendant
Her life is difficult and cramped. She is a worker, but success takes time in coming. She has problems in being open. She accepts solitude, rather than looks for it. Family problems.
3 Conjunction Uranus - Midheaven
She must have a job that allows her complete freedom, something non-routine. She likes change, has a lot of energy and knows how to influence others in spite of her originality.
2 Trine Mars - Jupiter
She has a good sense of organization, she is jovial, frank and sincere. She is full of dynamism and over-abundant energy. She loves life and takes all it has to offer. She likes sports and the outdoor life. She is successful professionally and emotionally. She usually has lots of children.
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| Aspects |
| Planet
| Aspect
| Planet
| Orb/Value
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| Sun
| Opposition
| Moon
| 6.51
| -91
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| Sun
| Conjunction
| Mercury
| 1.47
| 414
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| Sun
| Conjunction
| Saturn
| 4.32
| 92
|
| Sun
| Conjunction
| Midheaven
| 1.53
| 325
|
| Moon
| Opposition
| Mercury
| 5.04
| -104
|
| Moon
| Trine
| Mars
| 6.59
| 13
|
| Moon
| Trine
| Jupiter
| 0.50
| 125
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| Moon
| Opposition
| Uranus
| 4.45
| -113
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| Moon
| Opposition
| Midheaven
| 4.58
| -81
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| Mercury
| Conjunction
| Saturn
| 6.20
| 123
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| Mercury
| Conjunction
| Uranus
| 9.49
| 6
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| Mercury
| Conjunction
| Midheaven
| 0.05
| 222
|
| Venus
| Conjunction
| Saturn
| 8.05
| 59
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| Venus
| Square
| Ascendant
| 2.27
| -29
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| Mars
| Trine
| Jupiter
| 7.49
| 2
|
| Mars
| Sextile
| Uranus
| 2.14
| 56
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| Mars
| Trine
| Ascendant
| 6.00
| 10
|
| Jupiter
| Square
| Pluto
| 5.59
| -0
|
| Saturn
| Square
| Ascendant
| 5.37
| -3
|
| Saturn
| Conjunction
| Midheaven
| 6.25
| 57
|
| Uranus
| Conjunction
| Midheaven
| 9.43
| 3
|
| Neptune
| Sextile
| Pluto
| 3.33
| 10
|
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| 1517
| -421
| 1096 |
| Sign types & asteroids |
| Signs masculine
| 7
|
| Signs of fire
| 4
|
| Signs feminine
| 3
|
| Signs of earth
| 1
|
| Signs cardinals
| 2
|
| Signs of air
| 3
|
| Signs fixed
| 3
|
| Signs of water
| 2
|
| Signs mutable
| 5
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| Chiron
| Gemini
| 12.50 R
|
| Ceres
| Virgo
| 9.15
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| Pallas
| Cancer
| 4.44 R
|
| Juno
| Scorpio
| 19.04
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| Vesta
| Capricorn
| 2.30
|
| Fortune
| Virgo
| 2.34
|
| South node
| Scorpio
| 8.55 |
| You Should Be A Sagittarius
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What's good about you: bold and adventure loving, life is one big party for you
What's bad about you: you don't think before speaking - and you often regret it!
In love: you're flirtatiously playful, but you never play games
In friendship, you're: the one who keeps everyone laughing
Your ideal job: fortune teller, philosopher, or athlete
Your sense of fashion: your own mix of vintage and new pieces
You like to pig out on: anything you haven't tried before |
2007/6/1 昨天下午去了新东方拍个人照还有集体照.大概是4月的时候,总部从国定路搬到了四平路国权路口的天益宾馆,昨天有幸去参观了一计,宽敞明亮了很多,布局和原来的风格差不多,见到了久违的兄弟姐妹们,哈开心呀.
老杨通知说拍照时要求男士正装+领带,女士套装,虽然不知道为什么要拍照,但是照这个情况看貌似还满正规的样子,于是又穿起了很formal的套装.中午出门走到马路上发觉这个天热是热得来,等差头差到四平路我已经要捂出一身汗了.进门一看,女老师都穿穿小披肩小衬衫要么就是裙摆飘飘,我显然是穿得过于professional了.听说别的部门要求男老师西装领带,女老师穿得越花越好.早知这样我也就不必穿得如此刮三,随便穿件小西装就行了,虽然还有人安慰我说这样满好看的,但总之还是感觉刮三呀.要是被sy或是隔壁的女人看到了,估计又会哈哈大笑道你真做作啊.
老杨西装笔挺的样子颇具领导风范,最引人注目的是他带了一条蜡蜡黄的方圆100米都清晰可见的黄领带,无疑体现了他一贯的风格.一般来说,女老师上课的时候喜欢翻翻行头变变造型换换风格,学生看了多少会有些新鲜感不至于太疲惫太无趣;而男老师只要不显得过于随意,都还是习惯穿得比较休闲舒适,可能是动作幅度大又要写板书的关系吧.因此,当我一下子看到男人们一个个都西装笔挺的样子顿时眼前一亮,真是难得一遇的奇观啊.不知从何时开始有了这样的怪癖,很多时候都会prefer男人们那种business formal或是business casual的扮相,穿着很formal的样子有时举手投足间会流露出一种难以言说的腔调.当然休闲西装之类的造型也是很gentleman很有亲切感的,彰显出毫不拘谨的随性,偶尔来点不经意的小混搭的确是很灵的.
负责照相的大叔姗姗来迟,最刮三的是,我们居然要站在门口的前台处拍照,估计是为了把新东方logo之类的东西拍进去吧.大门外面就是车来车往人来人往的四平路,于是我们就只能对着拍照大叔和行人点头微笑了.我是个很讨厌拍照的人,一是因为脸比较大,而镜头又是圆的,每次拍出来的结果就像是个猪头;二是因为脸比较刮三,不知道应该怎么去微笑应该露出几颗牙嘴角上扬几度,每次一笑就容易僵掉,好像脸部抽筋一样.拍个人照的时候,我看到那个大叔就很想笑.等我镇定下来准备好好拍照了,外面大风一阵又一阵,刚刚弄好的发型又毁于一旦.我只好开始面部表情丰富地做怪腔,结果大家狂笑,老杨递过来一个带有小蝴蝶结的彩色格子发箍说,你干脆把这个带上去压压头发算了.额.这个带了比不带还要刮三呀,风格太不搭了.看到拍照大叔狂和我使颜色示意我不要带那个发箍,于是就婉言谢绝了.结果趁大风平静的时候,随便把头发弄了弄,拍出来的结果可想而知了,肯定又是面部抽筋的猪头照.再后来是一二三四册老师分别拍照以及新概念部的集体照.
当时有种非常奇妙的感觉油然而生,就像Tina在sp里写的那样,拍照时会非常强烈地觉得我们这个集体是个好集体.我很庆幸自己能身处这样一个集体中,也很感激Mary把我带进了这个集体.和大家在一起就好似兄弟姐妹般无拘无束,可以肆无忌惮地笑,可以天南地北地聊.从小到大除了姓名之外,周围的朋友还有家人更多地会叫我Lane或是蕾蕾,而在这个集体中大家都习惯了把姓氏去掉亲切地称呼后面两个字.大概是因为年龄比较小资历也浅的缘故,在这个集体中,觉得自己就像是个孩子,有太多东西要去充电学习积累经验,于是会卸下平时伪装成大人的面具,无忧无虑地回归孩子的本性.而且大家都是很好很善良的人,总会互相关心互相照顾,亲如一家.
想起最近收到了很多六一短信,其中有一条说的是,知道你平常装大人挺辛苦,过节了想吃手就吃手,想尿床就尿床,谁管你就咬谁.说实话,平时的大人扮相真的很累也很辛苦,偶尔和朋友在一起做出孩子般的表情或是用孩子的口吻说话,总会被人说道,啊呀,没想到啊没想到,原来你也会有那么小孩子的一面啊,搞得我一脸茫然,无地自容.常常会想,或许人们表面的成熟稳重知性干练严谨认真甚至是沧桑感并非出自其本意,很有可能是迫不得已罢了.当我们成长或是老去的同时,依旧会童心未泯,依旧会无可救药地孩子气.就像是很多人曾经说过的那样,每个人心中都有一部分是属于孩子的,在任何时候都要保有一份纯真的童心.
亲爱的们,儿童节快乐!
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